SERIES TITLE: DEAR DAUGHTER, DESTINY, AND MARRIAGE: WHAT EVERY PARENT, WOMAN, AND MAN MUST UNDERSTAND BEFORE SAYING “I DO”
Modern culture has convinced many people that the ultimate goal of marriage is happiness. It is not.
Happiness is wonderful, romance is beautiful and companionship is valuable but none of these were ever intended to be the highest purpose of marriage.
A marriage can be exciting and still be empty.
A couple can be deeply in love and still miss their assignment.
A home can be full of laughter and still fail to leave a meaningful legacy.
The real question is not whether a marriage is enjoyable. The question is whether it is purposeful.
What is the eternal value of the union?
What problem is the family solving?
What impact is the marriage creating?
What legacy is being established?
What kingdom assignment is being advanced?
One of the reasons many marriages lose excitement after a few years is because excitement was never designed to sustain them. Purpose sustains what feelings cannot.
When a husband and wife understand why God brought them together, disagreements become easier to navigate.
Sacrifices become easier to make and challenges become easier to endure because they understand they are building something bigger than themselves.
A woman who only wants a man’s attention may become frustrated by his purpose.
A woman who understands purpose becomes a partner in advancing it.
Likewise, a man who only values a woman’s beauty will eventually become disappointed. But a man who values her wisdom, strength, vision, and contribution will discover treasures that grow with time.
The strongest marriages are not built around pleasure. They are built around purpose.
The greatest joy a man experiences is not merely having a wife. It is fulfilling the assignment God gave him.
The greatest joy a woman experiences is not merely being married. It is knowing her life is helping to advance something eternal and meaningful.
Marriage is not the destination. Purpose is the destination while marriage is one of the vehicles God uses to accomplish it.
A thrilling marriage without purpose may impress people while a purpose-filled marriage changes generations.
If you desire a marriage that is bigger than romance, deeper than emotions, and capable of transforming generations, study Single and Soaring, If Love Is Not Enough in Marriage, and The Power Couple Marriage Blueprint. Also enroll in our marriage mentoring programs and relationship courses at www.messiahsmandate.com/shop.
Build more than a wedding. Build more than a home. Build a legacy.
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Parents who desire to raise purpose-driven daughters should study Single and Soaring, The Power Couple Marriage Blueprint, Heaven’s Parenting Manifesto, and Unleashing the Genius in Your Child. These resources provide practical tools for preparing children for destiny and healthy relationships.
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