SERIES TITLE: WHEN YOU WAKE UP AND REALIZE YOU MAY BE IN THE WRONG BOAT: Marriage, Destiny, Purpose, and What To Do Next
Potential has destroyed many lives. I have been married for close to a decade, and I can tell you that potential is attractive because it allows people to imagine a future but marriage does not happen in the future. Marriage happens in the present.
Many women marry a man for who they hope he will become but wise women evaluate who he is becoming now.
Potential without discipline is dangerous.
Potential without responsibility is unreliable.
Potential without action is fantasy.
The question is not whether he has dreams. The question is whether he has demonstrated the habits required to achieve them. Character is always a better predictor of the future than charisma.A wise woman learns to evaluate consistency, integrity, humility, teachability, and responsibility before she evaluates promises.
A man’s future is often hidden in his daily habits.
Pay attention.
Parents who desire to raise purpose-driven daughters should study Single and Soaring, The Power Couple Marriage Blueprint, Heaven’s Parenting Manifesto, and Unleashing the Genius in Your Child. These resources provide practical tools for preparing children for destiny and healthy relationships.
Recommended Resources
Books by Apostle Gideon Oluwalana
- Single and Soaring
- If Love Is Not Enough in Marriage, What Then Is…?
- The Power Couple Marriage Blueprint
- Heaven’s Parenting Manifesto
- Unleashing the Genius in Your Child
- Solo Parenting
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